Life is hard. The world is cruel. Life is
unfair. And so is the world. Take a look back at our life. Do you remember that
time? Don’t tell me you’ve never been to that part of your life. I can’t really
remember when it happen to me but what I know is during that time, I’m currently
going through the phase where I hated my life. Maybe it happened to you when
you’re 11 or 12. Or maybe, you can’t even recall when it happens to you. Hey hey
there. I know what’s playing in your dirty minds by now. And nope, it’s not
that ‘thing’. Alright?! What I’m trying to say is do you remember that part of
your life, when your younger, cuter, naive self said, “I can’t wait to grow
up”. Do you remember now? Every one of us had said that to our adolescent-selves.
Most of us are still too dumb to realize what is waiting for us in the future.
Yes. Now you deserve to laugh at yourself.
Laugh. GO! Laugh around. Jump here, jump there, jump everywhere and LAUGH!
Because now we finally realize that life is HARD. Isn’t it? Well, friends.
Childhood friends. Your squad when you’re in high school. Where are all of them
now when you’re in need? When you really are in need. Yes. We have nowhere to
turn to. Family are always first. But not all of your problems you can share
with them right? Don’t tell me the “I’m close with my mom” shit. Well I’m close
with mine too. But not every problem could be shared with her. Well different
people have different choices right. I’m not here to stop you from being close
with your mom. I admit it, I’m jealous with them who can share every single
thing with their moms. While I can’t. Cause I choose not to. She got enough
problems to think of rather than my problems. Important things? Yes she’ll be
the first to know. She’s my mother after all. She did carry me around for 9
goddamn months, in pain. Okay?
As we grow old, we will learn how to cope with
our life. With our long (maybe sweet, maybe sour) life. In the process of
learning to stay on the right lane, we will get through so many different kinds
of level. And you will have to fight. Fight emotionally. Fight mentally. Or
maybe, until that one level, you may have to fight physically. And along that
levels, there may be a few levels that are hard to go through. And we need
help. Maybe professional help. Or amateur? Or whatever. Yes. In that level, you
can call your Luigi. Your girl. Your boy. Your loco-loco. Your #bestgirlfriendintheentireworldeva.
Call them. Then wait and see. How many of them will be there. Okay let’s say if
you got only one, will s/he be there? Can they? And if they can’t, you have
nowhere to turn to. Now you’re alone. Now now now, don’t cry. Don’t do stupid
things! There’s only one more person left to help you. They will help you. No
matter what happens, they will be there for you. Every time, anywhere. It’s
you. Yes YOU. Now you yourself have to help yourself. Regain your strength, max
out your energy, toughen your mind, and GO. Go all the way through. Without
anyone’s help. You’ll feel good when you finally finish that level by yourself.
Proud even!
All those levels may contain things that
almost every youngsters are going through. You know things like emotional
breakdowns, problems with your S.O, confusion of making decisions and so on.
And to go through all that levels, you have to be strong. You have to be tough.
Did I tell you there may be a stopper in your way to go through. A stone. A big
one. And that is you. You yourself are the boulder. Its either you let yourself
go for it, or just stick around with all the same shits and not even try to go
explore that new side of your life. Do you want to still hang around with your
old lame life? Of course not! So don’t let yourself be the stopper of your own
life. Go for it and never ever, give up.
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